For Self Esteem

Manka Menga Mmasi
2 min readMar 20, 2023

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Reflections

What makes this body the thing to return to every morning?

chastise it,

make a presentation of it,

protect it from the elements,

the temptations of belonging

the very weapons formed against me?

what makes this skin to thicken,

form a barrier between myself

and the meat of their tongues?

what makes me want to see the universe

through these here eyes,

doe like,

full of a wisdom forced upon them

by cancerous growths,

when I should have remained tender

just a little longer?

what makes me want to speak

with this voice

this quiet mellow tremor of my spirit?

what will my voice even say

how and when?

will I shriek when it matters?

would I whisper when it is just

(the thing required)?

what makes me want to walk

in these legs carrying these feet

through this wilderness

of living?

where would I let them carry me autonomously?

would I have courage to tread new paths

leaving but breadcrumbs

lest I survive

the dragging through the muck

of becoming

growing pains in my liver

accumulating fear in my appendix

what makes me want to multiply

my sins

in this here uterus?

what does this pelvis know of carrying children?

has it ever done the right thing

at the right time?

why would this time be different?

would I stretch to let a world through?

or would I feast

on my own flesh and blood

in the battle for nutrients?

What makes me want to feed its stomach

knowledge,

no matter how bitter the taste

will this body stomach it?

will it live by bread alone?

what if it must survive droughts

would I see it through?

would I eat what the earth putrefies?

how far would I go to keep it alive?

what makes this flesh

the thing to keep filling with life

whose only promise is death

every other way?

what makes this body worthy one more rotation

with breath in its lungs?

Well…

This skin is kin.

This voice is visceral.

These legs kindered spirits.

This uterus the very garden of Eden.

This stomach is intimate.

This body,

well

This body is mine.

the thing I return to

every morning.

Image of Model Manka Menga captured by Dan Carter.

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Manka Menga Mmasi
Manka Menga Mmasi

Written by Manka Menga Mmasi

an opulent poetess, inspired by the need to connect and communicate and be understood.

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